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I used to drive a car. I could hang out with my friends whenever I wanted to. I had a great career! I was 25 going on 26. Little did I know I was also going on legally blind.
Diagnosed with juvenile diabetes at the age of three, I had an active life and a very healthy diet. The problem was I had a stressful job – working long hours, taking short lunch breaks, and not testing my blood sugar during the day. Stress increases blood sugar levels and if left undetected over time, it will increase blood pressure, which detached the retinas in both of my eyes. I had 8 eye operations to save what vision I have now.
As horrific as it was for me, it also was for my parents because it is a loss for everyone. I contemplated many things in the first year – reflecting, soul-searching on how to rebuild my life. I was very fortunate in that I didn’t feel sorry for myself or play the victim for very long, making it easier for me to accept, adapt and move forward.
Once I was back in my apartment I couldn’t go out for a walk unless I made plans with someone. I busied myself with getting familiar with all the rooms so I could be independent. I learned that I loved to cook! I liked to chop vegetables while listening to a book on CD. I focused on eating 5 healthy meals and snacks each day and incorporated walking on the treadmill (which I borrowed from my parents) while listening to TV – it made the hour go by faster!
Eventually I got a white cane and my world expanded. I pushed myself to go for a walk everyday. This would not only help improve my mobility skills with my cane but it would keep me active and give me a chance to clear my mind. I found I loved to talk to people and even more so, make them laugh! I got involved in public speaking, which led to stand-up comedy! I’m an advocate for the rights of people with all disabilities to make my city more inclusive. I love acting and have directed 3 films.
I am now 32 and I love my life! I enjoy getting out and trying new experiences like being in a glider plane, going through a corn maze and traveling around the world, because I get to experience it with new heightened senses! I’m grateful for everyone and everything in my life and I would not change a thing! I really believe that I was more blind before I lost my eyesight!
Sarah Empey
Calgary, Alberta
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